For the past year (with some interruptions), Hayley and I have been visiting different churches, some for only a week and others for more extended periods of time, as part of the “First Exposure” phase of our Church Search. These visits have been to a purposefully broad range of churches, both to denominations we thought we might seriously consider, as well as several visits which were primarily aimed toward experiencing other forms of Christianity and gaining an appreciated for our fellow brothers and sisters in Christ. As a result of this “First Exposure” phase, we have learned lots and gained some insights into where we should investigate further as part of our “Serious Considerations Phase.”
In this second phase, we intend to engage several churches/denominations more intensely as we seek to understand where we will best fit in the People of God. This investigation will involve two primary steps: First, extensive research on the churches we are considering. This means engaging additional written works theologians, pastors, and teachers within each respective denomination that we are considering, as well as seeking in-depth conversations with pastors and members of the local churches that we are visiting. A second step will be multiple visits to the churches/denominations we are considering. Here we intend to visit not only specific churches multiple times, but also to visit multiple churches within the denominations that we are considering. Where possible, we hope to visit at least three different churches in each denomination, at least one of which we will visit three or four times.
After much thought, prayer, and conversation, we have narrowed down the churches we are considering into three broad categories: Orthodox, Lutheran, and Episcopal/Anglican. We have come to recognize the internal diversity within each of these labels, and thus again emphasize that these are the broad denominational categories which we are considering. That said, the central theme that we have found to be important in our faith lives is the balance of ancient truth and tradition with contemporary applicability and service. That is, by-and-large these churches (or certain parts of these churches) seek to balance scripture, liturgy, tradition, worship, and living Christian love. It is for this reason that we have decided to focus our search on these three groups of churches.
Through our experiences with each of these churches already, we have already experienced that no church is a perfect church, primarily because we are there. Yet we are excited to learn and experience more fully how God and His people are learning, living, and loving in these churches. Though we have learned much already, we recognize that God is but beginning His work in our lives, and eagerly await this next phase in our journeys, including the part where we leave Winston-Salem (NC) and move to St. Louis (MO) in a few weeks time. We ask for your prayers and guidance as we continue this search, and look forward to sharing more with you in the months to come.
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It has been so exciting to follow you and Haley on your Great Church Search! I will keep you both in my prayers as you journey together on this. If I may, I want to suggest a couple churches in the Saint Louis area. In Kirkwood (near the LCMS headquarters) is Concordia Lutheran Church. They offer both traditional and contemporary services, and have a very supportive church community (including lots of young adults and Valparaiso University alumni!). That used to be my church before I converted, and my mother and sister still attend there. Pastor Seidler is very intelligent and very helpful if you wish to speak with him about this process. I have heard that Saint Nichols Greek Orthodox Church is absolutely breath-taking (my sister visited their for her ecumenical studies class), and it is not that far from SLU. The Church of St. Michael and St. George’s (Anglican) is supposed to be very liturgical and traditional, from what I have heard – that one is in Clayton. Saint Louis just has such a wonderful religious environment!
In Christ, Laura
Thank you so much for those suggestions–we’ll make those the first three places we visit!